Online safety

The internet helps young people socialise, make friends, play games and learn, but it also exposes them to risks from grooming, and seeing inappropriate images. But parents can help.

Asking about your child’s online world, agreeing boundaries and helping them to make good choices and keeping lines of communication open are all important ways helping children stay safe online. 

These are used for connecting with friends and sharing pictures, videos, messages or playing games.

Through social media, children and young people can be exposed to sexually harmful content, or contacted by people who could pose a risk of sexual harm to them.

Games often need profiles where children might share personal information, and some have chat functions which can lead to inappropriate conversations. Talk to your kids about how games work and who they play with, testing them out, updating privacy settings and agreeing safe boundaries. Activating privacy settings and learning reporting/blocking functions enhance safety.
  • Keeping gaming devices in common areas aids supervision.
  • Testing games for appropriateness and staying involved in gaming activities fosters trust and safety.
  • Both Apple and Android phones have setting that when a child initiates a new purchase or free download, a request is sent to the family organiser who can approve or deny it directly.
 

Here are some ways to help you keep children safe online

Regularly review and update privacy settings on social media platforms your child is using to control who can access their personal information.

Review your child’s friends and followers list on social media platforms, making sure that they only interact with people they can trust. Encourage them to be cautious of strangers and help them to report anything that worries them.

Teach your child about the risks of private messaging, emphasising the importance of not engaging with people they do not know and reporting any concerning. Talk to your child about what they can do and who they can speak to if they think an adult is speaking to them inappropriately, weather it be someone they know in real life or only online. 

For more help and advice on these topics, visit Childnet.

Whether a child can understand safety rules and put them into practice depends different things, including how old they are, their education and confidence. Keeping internet -enabled devices in shared areas of the home, rather than bedrooms, can help you stay connected to your child’s online world.

Teach your children the Childnet SMART rules:

S - Safe: Avoid sharing personal information online.

M - Meeting: Only meet online friends with parental permission and supervision.

A - Accepting: Be cautious of accepting messages or files from unknown individuals.

R - Reliable: Question the reliability of online information.

T - Tell: Encourage children to speak to a trusted adult if they feel uncomfortable online.

Additional support available

Organisations like Childline, Internet Matters, and Childnet have resources available to support you. International for guidance on online safety and support for children experiencing online threats.

By encouraging open communication, educating children about online risks, and implementing safety measures, parents can empower their children to stay safe online.

If you want your child to use the internet safely, a digital safety plan can help. Your child needs to feel that it is theirs, but you should develop it together.

Concerned about a young person's online behaviour?

Contact our anonymous Stop It Now helpline to speak to our advisors. You don’t have to give us any identifying information, so can remain anonymous.  

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